Wednesday, July 4, 2012

4th of July

We went up to Snowbird to spend the day with the Smiths. It was a beautiful day. The mountains looked gorgeous and the temperature wasn't too bad. There was some smoke coming across the mountains because of the Alpine fire going on. We ate a lot, talked a lot, and swam. Cooper loved the water. The pictures say everything.





After Cooper went to bed, we sat on our porch and watched all the neighbors setting off the big fireworks. Great 4th of July. Chris and I were talking about all the things we are grateful for in this country, some being: Cooper's medical bills being paid for, having our own home to live in, being on parents' insurance until 26, the Olympics, and many more things. We're proud to be Americans.



Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Hip Xray

Cooper had his hip xray yesterday. He was so cute! Sat completely still while I held his legs and chest so he wouldn't move. He loved looking at the red line they use to line up where they want to take the xray. He literally sat completely still. Doctor called today and no issues! We will go to a follow up clinic in September, but nothing to be concerned about. As normal as can be! I'm so proud! He's doing so great!

Saturday, June 30, 2012

Splash Pad!

Today we went to the park to celebrate cousin Quinn's 2nd birthday! We decided we would bring Cooper's swimwear and take him to play in the splash pad. He hates getting dried off from his bath and had never been in cold water so I wasn't sure how he would handle it, but he LOVED it! Life with him is so much fun! He didn't mind it splashing him or when it went in his face. We really loved the water coming out of this red mushroom. He would stand by it (while I'm holding him of course) and he would just grab at the water. When we were done, he didn't even fuss. We went back a little later and played one last time. I'm now even more excited to take him swimming next week! Some pictures from our fun evening:
Cousin Quinn is to the left in his Mater swimsuit!


Not sure what to think at first, but didn't mind it a bit!

Too interested in checking things out to look at the camera.


Friday, June 29, 2012

Loud Noises=Upset Stomach

You've been of oxygen and entire week and are doing amazing! We're so excited for you! Your nurse and developmental therapist came today. They think you're doing great!

  • Said you're ready to sit up you just need to decide to do it.
  • Need to continue with tummy time and playing in your bumbo to strengthen your core.
  • Told to start placing things away from you while on your tummy so you can army crawl to get it. We can put a little pressure on your feet to help you.
  • Need to practice rolling over each time we change your diaper. You can do it, but not enough as they want.
  • Continue to work on reaching with left hand and following things midline, left to right and vise versa.
You've started playing with your feet the past few days. We've learned that strawberries/bananas burn your bum. Peaches upset your stomach. We will try them again when you get bigger. We also learned that lots of noise bothers you. We had no idea preemies like you have a hard time with a lot of noise. We went to NBA Draft Party for Damian Lillard last night and you were acting weird. Then you started crying and wouldn't stop. Then you through up all over me. I took you straight to doctor and that's how we learned about the noises. Doctor wanted you to take some Pedialyte and rest. So, no fireworks for you this year. We were excited for you to see them, but we can wait. We just want you to do well.

Monday, June 25, 2012

Sleeping Habits

Your sleeping habits today are cracking me up! I went up to my bedroom only to realize it got really quiet. I went to check on you and this is what I found:
It brought tears to my eyes. You're growing so fast.

Then, I was doing laundry and I put you on some laundry on the laundry table while I was folding and sorting clothes. I put a few from you that were still a little warm from the dryer and BAM! you're out again! You've never been like this before. Makes me giggle! (You sleep with yours eyes slightly open sometimes... you get that from your dad.)

Words can't describe how much I love and adore you.

Sunday, June 24, 2012

No Oxygen!!!

Just a few updates! Cooper has been off oxygen for almost 72 hours! We're so proud of him! He has learned to suck his thumb on his right hand. He doesn't even like to take his binky anymore. He's talking more and more. He loves to bounce in his Jumperoo. He's a cutie!

Monday, June 18, 2012

NICU Follow-Up Program

You had a VERY LONG appointment today. It's through the "NICU Follow-Up Program." We met with a pediatrician, neurologist, physical therapist, nutritionist, audiologist, and social worker. I think that was all! We were there from 8:30 am until 1:00 pm.

Pediatrician - She sees nothing to be concerned about. A little tight, but overall, really good!

Neurologist - Thinks you're doing great! No real signs of your brain bleed. Wants your birthmark on your face checked because if a certain type of birthmark, it can mean there is something wrong in your brain. So, we will be going to a dermatologist to have that checked out. You reached for things and followed things well. You didn't cross reach, which is good, because sometimes those with brain bleeds will sometimes reach across to grad instead of using the closest.

Physical Therapist - Thinks she sees a slight favoring of your right side (common when you have a brain bleed on your right side). Nothing she's concerned about, but said we need to watch it. She thinks you might have an issue with your hip, but when she looked at you the test wasn't consistent so she isn't quite sure. So, we will be getting an ultrasound or xray of your hip to see if it tells us you're good or if there are problems. She gave us a few exercises to do with you after changing your diaper each time. She said you're a little stiff when we hold you up, meaning you don't just relax and let your legs bend, you stand. Also having to watch your ankles to make sure they are moving smoothly, and to watch your arms to make sure you're holding them both in instead of out. At one point while we were there, your right was in and relaxed, and your left was just hanging out wide so she said if we notice that to pull it back in. You followed, reached for, and played with things well. She also said to try our best to get you to have two 45 minute naps a day instead of all the little ones you take because your body doesn't release a growth hormone until you are asleep for that long!

Nutritionist - Said to aim towards 24 oz of formula a day (not 32 ounces like our doctor said) and eating cereal/baby foods twice a day (instead of 3 like our doctor said). She said the reason for this is you are considered a 4 month old, not a 7 month old. She's very happy with how you're doing. She said feedings is all about when you want it and how much you want and not to try to force you to eat. She's very happy with your habits, though. She said it's not a surprise that you don't get too fussy anymore when you want to eat. She said that is common for NICU babies. Sometimes it's extremely hard to find cues in NICU babies so if you haven't ate in 4 hours, to go ahead and try feeding you.

Audiologist - Hearing is still flat. Wants to see you in 3-4 months. Thinks having tubes in your ears will be a great thing if they don't drain in their own. Happy that the bones/nerves are fine and that there is no hearing loss in our family.

Social Worker - Happy that you're being taken care of and reminded me to plan things to look forward to each week and to interact with other adults. I'm already doing my best at that so we're both great!

Overall, great appointment. It was nice to have more eyes to check out how you're doing. Everyone thinks you're progressing very well. Physical therapist was even surprised that you were reaching for and holding toys already! We will go back again at your corrected age of 9 mo, 18 mo, and 2.5 years unless requested to come at other times.

It was also interesting to see all the other little ones there for their NICU follow-up. You could tell many had issues worse than yours and others that it didn't seem to affect too much. It also made me realize how lucky we are to have such a health baby boy. So proud of you! You're a fighter!

Sunday, June 17, 2012

Father's Day

We had a wonderful day! We made daddy a card with your handprints and it say "I love you thissss much!" Daddy and I used to tell this to each other while dating (and still do on occasion). He told me he wants me to teach it to you so when he comes home from work you can do it. I thought we would start a little early and make the cute card! We made daddy Shepherd's Pie for dinner (his favorite) and we got him a certificate to do a round of indoor golf at a place where there is a big screen, they have nice clubs, and he can play at any golf course that he wants, too! We got this for Grandpa Frederiksen, too!

Friday, June 15, 2012

First Play Date!

Growing up, I didn't have close friends because we moved so much. I was very excited about buying a home in hopes that Cooper would have friends to grow up with. It was even better when we found out there was a little boy across the street almost Cooper's age. So...

You had your first play date with your future best friend today (at least I think you will be best friends)! His name is Sam and you two had so much fun! You kept playing with each other's hands, smiled, and talked a little. It was fun to see you interact. Mommy enjoys the time to talk with Sam's mom, too, so we both win! Hopefully next time we will get pictures!

We got home and you got a little fussy and I said "Are you sad we had to leave Sam?" and it sounded like you said, "Yeah!" You wore each other out cause now you're sleeping!

AND, you rolled over from your back to your belly today while I was folding laundry! Wahoo!

Thursday, June 14, 2012

Our Wedding Day

Daddy and I remembered something the other day. We remembered that during our temple sealing the sealer told us that our CHILDREN (that's more than one) were there. Now that you're here, we realize that YOU were at our wedding. It makes us very happy to think about. You're the best!

Also, you started your first baby food yesterday... sweet potatoes. You LOVE them!

Sunday, June 10, 2012

So Much Fun!

You're so much fun! I was going through your drawers putting stuff that was too small in a box. We thought we would try on some of your hats to see if they still fit. This is the only one that kind of still fit and you just look so cute in it!!!
We also gave you your first tub bath! You were very quiet. You just looked around and loved moving your legs in the water. So cute!
You and Uncle Cory... I just know he is going to get you in lots of trouble! He likes to do stuff that bothers me!

Thursday, June 7, 2012

Things We Notice

You're getting bigger and smarter each day.
Some things we've noticed about you recently:
  • You've learned how to rub your eyes with your hands when you're tired.
  • You've learned to cry if we take your bottle out of your mouth before you consider yourself finished.
  • You've learned that your toy will make noise and move it you wiggle and hit the toys.
  • You're trying to hold your bottle on your own.
  • You can now get your legs under you when on your tummy.
Health Updates:
  • Still on your oxygen. You're off most of the day. 
  • Still haven't passed your hearing test. You were checked on Monday and the response was still flat. You are hearing, but not enough yet. It's muffled due to the fluid in your ears from your oxygen.
  • On Monday, you weighed: 13 lbs 14.5 ounces!
Motherhood/Teacher:
I've been a little overwhelmed lately. I will be started a new job as a 2nd grade teacher (part-time) at a Title I school. I feel like I'm a new teacher all over again. I've had a hard time with the thought of leaving you with someone else, but we've found great friends to watch you. I've struggled with it daily lately. My emotions have been high, for many reasons. I hope you always know that I am here for you. I hope you know that I am your mother and that I am doing my best for you. I hope you know I didn't choose teaching over you. I love you. You mean more to me than anything. You are my life. You make me want to be a better person. Just always know that I love you and that I am here for you.

Caught you, Daisy, and Grandpa Todd the other day....


Monday, June 4, 2012

My Little Man

Some pictures of you in your blessing suit. It's all you would let me get! You look so handsome and big!

You had another hearing test today and didn't pass. Still flat which means you still have fluid behind your ears.

Sunday, June 3, 2012

Blessing Day

Cooper, today was a wonderful and beautiful day.  You were so good all day. You were awake and quiet during your blessing (Grandpa Frederiksen said you were justa kickin’ your legs). Daddy gave you your blessing. Everyone thought you were so cute (and it’s completely true)! We thought you looked like a little temple worker in your suit. Daddy blessed you that you would know that the Lord has been with you from the beginning. He blessed you that you would be a missionary and so many other things. It was short, simple, and to the point. We hope you always know how much the Lord loves you.

Mommy’s Testimony: I hope you know that He is always with you. I know the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints is the only true church on the earth. I know that Thomas S. Monson is a living prophet on the earth today. He receives revelation from the Lord that helps guide us in these days. I know that Joseph Smith was a true prophet. I know the Book of Mormon is true and that the things inside of it help us learn about our life. It is for our day. It is another testament of Jesus Christ. I know that you were born three months early for a reason. I may never know why, but Cooper, more than anything, I know the Lord needed you here for something. You are a child a God. He loves you. He knows you. He will help you through everything. Keep him close. Live the gospel standards. I love you and am so proud to be your mom.

Daddy’s Testimony: Hopefully he will write this at some point!






Those in Your Blessing Circle: Daddy, Grandpa Joel Frederiksen, Grandpa L. Todd Smith, Uncle Cory Tinajero, Great-Grandpa Larry Smith, Great-Uncle Ralph, Cousin Aaron Allen, and a person from the bishopric.

People Who Attended Your Blessing: Me & Daddy, Grandma and Grandma Frederiksen, Aunt Rachel & Camille, Grandma and Grandpa Smith, Great-Grandma & Great-Grandpa Smith, Uncle Brandon Cory Tinajero, Aunt Johnnie & Uncle Harry, Great-Aunt Celeste and her kids Brielle, Abbey, Kade, and Elsie, Cousins Heather Frederiksen, Elizabeth & Aaron Allen and their little guy Quinn, Great-Uncle Ralph and Great-Aunt Lori Frederiksen, Great-Aunt DeAnn Jones and cousin Michelle Jones, Ben & Mandee Wheeler and their two boys Tucker and Gavin, and “Uncle” Huu Tran.

Those Who Later Came to Your Luncheon (in addition to those above): Great-Aunt Lisa, Cousins Shaylynn Robison, Brooke Peacock and her new little girl Hailey, Great-Aunt Jodean and Great-Uncle Adam Child and their kids Daniel, Katherine, and Jamie.

Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Swimming!

On May 30th, Daddy and I took your tub outside and put some water in it and put on your swimming trunks! You LOVED it! We have a great video of you kicking and splashing in the water. This is the only picture we got:

Saturday, May 26, 2012

Sports Fan Already

I ran upstairs to get your bottle and I came back to this:

Daddy was teaching you all about soccer and you were intently watching. You love watching it with us! Go REAL Salt Lake!

UPDATED: The day following this picture, we were at Grandma and Grandpa Frederiksen's house. You were on Grandpa's lap and he had soccer on. Anytime the game was on, you stared at it. When the commentator or a commercial came on, you just looked away. As soon as the game came back on, you were watching again. You're gonna be a soccer player!

Friday, May 25, 2012

Our Little Turtle

I've been reminiscing over the experience we had to get you here. It brings tears to my eyes and smiles to my face. It's amazing how much our life has changed since you've arrived, but in such a great way. There is so much joy in our life.

I thought I'd share the first picture daddy and I ever saw of you. We thought you looked like a little turtle. Everyone said this was the best picture they saw of a baby for the first time.

Thursday, May 24, 2012

My New Favorite

I'm a mom. You're my boy. It's the best.

Monday, May 21, 2012

Natural Medicine

You're natural medicine, Babe! I can have a horrible day and as soon as I see your face and hold you, it's like nothing happened. You make everything better.

Something we've noticed about you lately: you love to rub your feet together. You get that from me!

Sunday, May 20, 2012

Solid Foods!

You tried rice cereal for the first time today. At first, you kept pushing it out with your tongue and it was ALL over your face! Then, you started to get the hang of it and would suck it off the spoon and we could hear you swallowing. By the end, it was all over your face, but you finished it and then drank your bottle. You're growing up so fast! I can't believe you're already eating solid foods!

You also LOVE this ball! You can throw it (though not intentionally) and love to suck on it.

Your hair is also growing! It's so cute!

Thursday, May 17, 2012

6 Month Stats

You're getting so big! You weight 12 pounds 11.5 ounces. Your length is 24.21 inches long (which is in the 1% of a normal 6 month old) and your head circumference is 16.2 inches (which is in the 3% of a normal 6 month old). It's crazy that you're even on the charts of a 6 month old since you were 3 months preemie! The doctor is very pleased! You are starting to teeth on your bottom left as we had expected. RSV season appears to be over so we can have people around and take you shopping with us and stuff. I'm super excited! We can also start you on solid foods! We're going to try cereal and then after 3-5 days we will introduce you to a food! Yum! It's going to be a whole new experience for the both of us! We also hope to bless you next month on Fast Sunday. Keep up the good work, Buddy! We love you!
  • Still rolling over belly to back. 
  • Starting to pull yourself forward to sit up.
  • Love playing with toys and putting them in your mouth.
  • Drooling tons!
  • Sleeping through the night most nights.
You're a VERY happy boy! 

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

6 Months Old

My Little Coops, you're six months old! I can't believe how fast you've grown! You've been such a joy to raise. It's been tiring at times and not always easy, but always worth it. Even at three in the morning, I can't help but smile because you are so excited to see me. You have your six month appointment tomorrow. I can only imagine how much you way and how proud the doctor is going to be! You're doing amazing!

You had a physical therapist come to visit you today. She feels you don't need physical therapy. She is shocked that you had a stage 4 brain bleed. She said you don't show any signs of that affecting you thus far, which is amazing. She thinks you're doing great! Hearing lady came as well and says you're responding well so you're good to go! We'll see how your appointment goes tomorrow.

Happy 6 month birthday! You're HALF A YEAR old!!!! Holy cow!!!

Sunday, May 13, 2012

Mom, Mommy, Mother

Happy Mother's Day to Me!!! Today was my very first Mother's Day. It was wonderful. We started the day with delicious crepes... Daddy's specialty. You had a card for me and a flower to wear to church. (I laughed at Daddy because he wrote "Rachelle" on the envelope and I told him you would have wrote Mommy. We had a little laugh.) Then, we went to church with Grandma Frederiksen. You behaved pretty well. You got tired and got a little cranky, but you fell asleep and were fine. Great Aunt Johnnie got to hold you. She said it made her Mother's Day. It was your first Sunday. It couldn't have been a better day to do it! I loved having you there and us being together. Then, we went and saw Grandma Smith and spent some time with her. Then, we went back to Grandma Frederiksen's and had a yummy dinner and you got to meet more family.

This is what I came into the kitchen to this morning... made me laugh. So cute!

How was my Mother's Day? Fantastic. I absolutely love being a mom. I love being a mom to a boy. I was so scared when I first found out. I felt so inadequate. Once you arrived, I knew it would be great and it has been. You're a great baby. I love it every time you smile. I love knowing that you love me and know me as your mother. There isn't a calling more fulfilling than that of being a mother. I feel so blessed.

Saturday, May 12, 2012

Great Aunt & Uncle

You got to meet your Great Aunt T (Tracy Gates) and her son, Ronald Held, and Great Uncle Terry Call today. Aunt T was VERY excited to meet you. Had been asking for months. She was there the night you were born, too.

Baby Animal Days

I've been looking forward to taking you to baby animal days for two weeks! You had a lot of fun. The bunnies even got a smile out of you! One little girl wanted to look at you, the "real baby" instead of the baby animals. It was cute. We enjoyed getting to be out with you. It was a fun first family outing.

We spotted these three crazy animals...



You LOVED the bunnies.


 We got to hold a bunny. You kept grabbing his fur and we would have to pry your hand off.


Friday, May 11, 2012

Good morning!

This is the cute face we wake up to each morning! You definitely didn't get your morning attitude from me!

Sunday, May 6, 2012

A Needed Update

Cooper, we've been so busy having so much fun that we haven't updated in a while! You're doing FANTASTIC.

  • You're laughing and cooing and talking more and more!
  • You're rolling from your belly to your back.
  • You met your Great Uncle Van for the first time on Cinco de Mayo.
  • Daddy and I took you to Lowe's one day and you were so good! You just looked around and sucked on your binky.
  • You got your first cold four days ago. You're handling it well. Not too cranky.
  • You are officially weened to formula. The transition was smoother than we thought it would be.
  • You're in 3 month outfits. They are starting to get a little small, but 3-6 month clothes are too big.
  • Daddy hit me with his elbow in his sleep the other night and I said "Ouch" and he said "Sorry, Mom." It made me laugh out loud. He called me mom. I realized my name is no longer "Hun" to your dad, it's "Mom." I love it!
  • You love going on walks with Mommy and Daddy. You just fall asleep.
  • You're playing with and holding toys more.
  • You're drooling a ton! We think you might be starting to teeth.
  • Today, you stared at Daisy, Grandma Smith's dog, and just smiled, and giggled, and talked to her. We aren't sure why you loved her so much, but you did! It was so funny watching you watch her!
We love you so much! We will never be able to tell you that enough. We will never be able to express to you how much joy and excitement you bring to our life.